Thursday, October 28, 2010
I've been waiting for this. This term, we've added swimming lessons to his schedule. Not in themselves a problem, but when you're at Little Ninjas twice a week and guitar lessons once a week, it all adds up. At the start of the term, we discussed dropping Ninjas. He loves Ninjas. He is never happier than when he's running around in blue pyjamas wearing his belt du jour (currently orange). He didn't want to drop Ninjas. "I'll be okay, Mum," he said. "It's only half an hour."
True. But half an hour, twice a week (they have a rule that you can't just go once, I checked). Plus half an hour of swimming. Plus half an hour of guitar. Swimming is not-negotiable - he's just beginning to lose that drowned labrador stroke. Guitar is something I want to support and encourage for as long as I can. If he's willing to go, I'm willing to take him. Ninjas, he loves.
Clearly, he's doing too much. He's tired. But what do you do? Take away the thing he loves. The thing he needs. Or the thing that, when he's 40, he'll regret giving up?
I call it the extra-curricular conundrum. No answers here. Not yet.
Do you have an extra-curricular activities policy at your house? Any tips?